In his popular book, 9 Essential Conversations before You Say I Do, author and pastor Gary Thomas, marriage and family therapist Dr. Steve Wilke and Rebecca Wilke, EdD help couples explore: - What marriage means to each individual and whether this is a wise match - How to engage in essential relational pursuits such as healthy conflict, sexual intimacy, and spiritual intimacy - How to discuss in advance crucial aspects of marriage such as childrearing, finances, and marital roles - Why asking hard questions now is better than asking them five years from now With thoughtful questions that encourage couples to examine themselves and their relationships, 9 Essential Conversations before You Say I Do will help couples thrive not only in the early months of their marriage but also in the years to come. Includes Guides and Questions. A workbook for premarital counseling, 9 Essential Conversations before You Say I Do guides couples through the most important conversations to test and grow their relationship.