family history messy and you find out why ( )

The Aschers once lived what seemed a charmed existence. Celebrated playwright and actor Joe married successful actress Laura and they and their two children, Thomas and Emily, enjoyed summers at the family cottage in the Berkshires, their escape from New York City. But beneath the shiny exterior, there are widening fissures and cracks even before seventeen year old Thomas, suffering from lymphoma, dies, an event that exposes the extent of dysfunction and tears the family apart. Hyatt Bass has written an intense family drama in her first novel, The Embers.

Opening with daughter Emily Ascher trying to plan her wedding, wanting to hold it on the hillside where her brother's ashes are scattered, the narrative jumps between the present and the past. With Joe and Laura now divorced and each of them having a problematic relationship (or non-relationship) with Emily, the estranged Aschers must come to an uneasy detent, face the tragedy that ripped them apart, and learn to build a fragile future while ackowledging that devastating past. In the face of her wedding to a really nice, amazing guy, Emily still finds herself wondering what her brother would say about her fiance, about the state of their family, about her life and the way in which she has changed, turned herself around. Interwoven with her growing apathy about the wedding, is the history of that fateful year and what really happened the night that Thomas died, why it has wounded each of the Aschers so deeply.

This is a psychological study of a family stepped in bitterness, sorrow, and regret but also of a family wanting to finally reconcile with the past and to be able to move unburdened into the future. It jumps between the past of the 1990s and through to the present of 2007 in each of the voices of the main characters (although Joe's voice dominates) giving the reader insight into each of the characters' ideas about what really happened the night that Thomas died as well as their own personal stories and the state of the family leading up to the tragedy. The various narrations highlight the small and large ways in which each of the characters feels the family as a whole and as individuals has failed him or her. And none of the characters are all that sympathetic, each of them self-absorbed and unable to recognize pain in the others, so focused on their own perceptions that they are blind to the fraying of their relationships.

And yet, despite the lack of emotion, the slowness of the building atmosphere, and the frustration the reader feels towards the obviously damaged characters, the story still weaves a spell that holds the reader's attention. The mystery of what actually happened to Thomas the night he died and how and why the guilt from then has so long been apportioned as it has turns out to be of little importance in the grand scheme of it all although the carefully controlled revelations of more and more information as the story progresses suggests otherwise. It is the chance of reconciliation and healing through Emily's upcoming wedding that ultimately drives the novel. It's powerful, beautifully written, realistic, and elegaic but with a kernel, just the smallest glimmer, of light and hope despite the initial catastrophic unraveling of the family and that makes all the difference. ( )

I LOVED this book! A great read and you will even have a place in your heart for every one that shows up in the story. ( )

Emily is an earnest young professional living with her fiance who continues to have issues with her parents concerning her upbringing, her brother's death, and their continued relationships. As an "on the rise" District Attorney working the case of her career, Emily appears as though she's taken the bull by the horns, but she struggles with her self-confidence. She is not the happy person one would expect. The closer her wedding draws near, the less sure she becomes of anything.

Emily isn't the only member of the family with issues. Her mother, Laura, still hasn't gotten over how Emily was closer to her father while she was growing up. Couple that with her lingering animosity over Thomas' death, Joe's role in it, and her resentment over her decision to give up acting when she became a mother, Laura is bitter. Ostensibly she is the most put together of the threesome being happily remarried, but her motivations cannot be trusted. Joe was the family's driving force in its heyday. He experienced wild success as a playwright and actor. As his children and marriage aged, he felt his role slipping. His writing wasn't what it once had been and he found himself mid-life crisis which ultimately cost him his marriage and his family. The role that this crisis played in Thomas' death continues to haunt him, affecting his relationship with everyone and anyone. He is most pained by the way his daughter treats him. There was so much turmoil and angst with this family that I found myself wondering if Thomas was the lucky one.

After reading The Embers, I watched the author's 2000 film "75 degrees in July." It was the fact that Hyatt Bass wrote both a movie and a novel that attracted me to The Embers initially. I cannot say that watching the movie did much for my appreciation of her novel. Once again there is a family eaten alive by resentment. There was little relief and not much insight. Thankfully, the hope wasn't lacking in The Embers. Between the two stories, The Embers not only contained resolution, but I fully understood the underlying issues. No one was a saint. No one was helpless. I do think that all of the characters with the exception of Laura's fiance let their dander get up way too quickly, something that was true even more so in "75 degrees in July." It was as if every statement or expression was examined to see if a slight could be found.

I called Emily earnest at the beginning of this review. Earnest is a good word to use to sum up the entire novel. It didn't work as well for me as I had hoped. If you are interested in strained family relationships and character-driven plots, you may want to give The Embers a try. Hyatt Bass is a talented writer and clearly cares for the characters she created. ( )

I got this from LT Early Reviewers. I was very intrigued by the description. I was very disappointed in the book. None of the characters were likeable. Which can be fine. However they weren't hateable either. I just never got invested in them one way or the other. I don't know if it was the writing or what the issue but the story never quite made sense, the people never quite seemed real enough and there never seemed to be a point to the story. I read to the end (I forced myself) just to see the 'resolution' but don't really feel like there was one of those either. Yes, there was an ending event but resolution? No. I am sorry I wasted the reading time. ( )