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Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence (original 2006; udgave 2017)

af Esther Perel (Forfatter)

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A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home. One of the world's most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home. Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.… (mere)
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Titel:Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
Forfattere:Esther Perel (Forfatter)
Info:Harper Paperbacks (2007), Edition: Reprint, 272 pages
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The unstated and unexamined assumption behind this book is that the only way for a long-term relationship to be healthy is if there is a lot of sex. Perel never addresses the fact that some people just don't want to have sex all that often and that's okay. Perel thinks that sex is more important than any other aspect of a relationship, and so it's okay to sacrifice other things that are great about a relationship - including a sense of safety and security - to make sure that there's lots of sex.

The premise of the book is that it can be hard to keep sex exciting in a long-term relationship. Perel thinks this is because sex thrives on a sense of novelty and exploration and even danger, and after you've been with someone for a long time, the novelty wears off. Her solution to this is of course to do some experimentation, but also to distance yourself from your long-term partner so that the sex feels new again. Which is fine if frequent and exciting penis-in-vagina sex is the only goal of your long-term relationship, but if you value a sense of closeness and security over sex, then this book will not be helpful. ( )
  Gwendydd | Aug 29, 2021 |
Much of this book is hampered by a fairly narrow definition of a healthy sexual relationship (although not nearly as narrow as many books on the subject) and an annoying habit of cheering on Baby Boomer-style promiscuity but a dismissal of the sexual liberation of GenXers and Millennials. The solutions are also highly individual and impractical for most couples. The chapter on parenthood has some good insights, so it's not a total throwaway. ( )
1 stem ImperfectCJ | Jul 5, 2021 |
Some interesting insights. Psychotherapy-based perspective with all the skepticism that invites. If you're not into archetypes, stay clear. ( )
  libraryhead | May 2, 2021 |
great book about how people forget to create erotic distance between themselves in relationships and forget each person is supposed to be seperate and not enmeshed. it would be better if it was updated with more polyam, LGBTQ and POC examples. ( )
  kevix | Dec 28, 2020 |
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A mes parents, Sala Ferleiger et Icek Perel.
Leur vitalité continue de vivre en moi.
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Introduction : L'histoire sexuelle des couples moderne parle souvent de l'érosion du désir.
Livre : A New York, les fêtes ressemblent à des voyages anthropologiques : on ne sait jamais qui on va y rencontrer ni ce qu'on va y trouver.
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Mais les faibles aussi détiennent une forme de pouvoir, qui se manifeste à travers la déférence, la passivité, la retenue, le fait de s'insinuer dans les bonnes grâces de quelqu'un, d'utiliser la posture morale de la victime.
La frustration que les gens éprouvent lorsque leur corps n'est pas touché, carressé, étreint et satisfait, les amène à se sentir acculés.
Il suffit que notre santé nous trahisse, que la mort vienne nous effleurer, pour que nous nous sentions envahis par une bouffée d'insatisfaction, que nous soyons saisis par la faim de quelque chose de meilleur.
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A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home. One of the world's most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home. Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.

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