Whisper1 Seventh thread of 2021

BOOK # 107


On That Day by William Arkin

This is an intense description not only of what occurred both leading up to the actual planes hitting the NY twin towers, but the details of those who took over the planes when and how.

It was difficult to read at times because of the intensity. In addition to the description of the event, there were numerous details of when our government was inadept, including the fact that the President of the United States was without security immediately after the bombings.

There were errors of miscommunications of the flight numbers and where they might have been headed.

Despite the millions spent in a plan in the event something like these bombings would occur, few plans were followed through.

What a mess!!!!!

>2 Whisper1: You have more fortitude than I do---I still could not bring myself to read an account of how we failed to recognize the threats and prevent what happened on 9/11.

Still thinking strong good thoughts for you regarding the new pain management procedure.

>1 Whisper1: That is so pretty. I wish the same for you, lovey!

Happy new thread!!

Happy new thread, Linda.

I also don't think I could read a report of those details. It sure doesn't sound very reassuring!

Re your last post on the last thread, wishing you the best and am happy that you are feeling comforted and comfortable with the overall plan.

Greetings on your new thread!

Thinking of you and praying the new procedure is the last that you have to test out

(((((HUGS))))) along with happy new thread wishes, Linda.

Happy Wednesday, Linda. Happy New Thread! Good luck next week. You will be in our prayers.

Happy new one!

Happy new thread, Linda. I love your topper.

Thanks to all! I apologize for not responding individually. I am very tired. In addition to the news of a bit of delay for the stage two of the infusion pump surgery, sadly, one of Will's beloved cousin died.

Throughout the years, we had such fun with Bill. We went on a cruise with him and family members. In the hospital, when Will was depressed after his open heart surgery, I asked him to remember a happy event. He mentioned the cruise, and one night in particular when Will, his cousin Bill and I sat in chairs at the bow of the ship. The sky was beautiful with brightly lit stars. Will said "This is what heaven is like!"

My personal spiritual belief is that Will and Bill's mother (Will's special Aunt Phyllis) and
Bill's father, greeted Bill when he transitioned from this world to the next. Because Bill's death was unexpected with complications from surgery, the family is reeling with extra grief.

There is also a lot of dysfunction with Bill's soon- to- be divorced wife. As usual, there was/is always drama with his wife. Now, not only does the family have this unexpected tragedy, but in addition, she did not allow anyone to talk to him in the hospital before his death. And, as he was dying, the family was denied any information. There could have been some closure, now, only added pain.

I swear, I will never understand ugly actions when it could/should have been so very different. The wife will have her own service, and none of us will be informed or allowed to attend.

>12 Whisper1: I'm so sorry for your loss. That was a happy memory. And family drama isn't what any of us need these days.

>12 Whisper1: Linda - there's no accounting for why people do not choose compassionate kindness...so sad for another hard time in the midst of all you are going through.

Oh, Linda. I'm sorry to hear about Bill's death and about the meanness surrounding it. The wife must be a sad, wizened, twisted little person. I'm sorry that you and the rest of the family are at her mercy.
I'm glad that you have precious memories to sustain you.

Prayers continue for a good abatement to your pain.

>12 Whisper1: The behavior of some people is not explainable, keep him in your heart and focus on the people who are good for you.
I wish you all the best for your health and much strength.
Oh yes and... Happy new thread!

My deepest condolences on your loss, Linda. And extra sympathy for the unkindness that comes along with it. Bill's wife must be a very unhappy person, to need to inflict that extra pain on people who loved him.

Hi Linda--Sorry to hear about Bill and all the drama surrounding his passing. I don't understand people sometimes. Wishing you better times and best of luck with the pain pump. And I love your top post--that is so YOU! : )

Sorry to hear about Bill. May the family find comfort in their grief, and may everyone find healing, even his wife.

Happy New Thread, Linda! Wonderful topper!

I hope your appointment is rescheduled quickly.

Deepest sympathies for the loss of Will's cousin and the additional inflicted pain.

I enjoyed your reviews of Simply Halston and On That Day. Both sounds a bit intense for me right now, but your reviews were wonderful.

One of the books I'm currently reading is The Choice: Embrace the Possible by Edith Eger. I believe I got that rec from you. :)

Happy new thread, Linda!

>12 Whisper1: My condolences, so sorry some can't be nice at such a time :'(

Happy new thread, Linda. I'm sorry to read about the delay in your procedure and about the passing of someone else close to you. So sad that Bill's wife is making it harder for everyone close to him to grieve.

{{hugs}}, Linda. Better days ahead, and SOON!

I'm so sorry for your loss, Linda. Take care.

Hi Linda my dear, Happy new thread. So sorry to hear of the passing of Will's cousin, Bill and that you will not be able to attend the funeral, there are some strange folk about.

I hope that when you have the procedure it is the last that you will need my dear, your fortitude during the painful spells is a testament to your strength.

We are both fine despite the problem that we cannot talk about, Elliott is growing every time we see him and in a week or so we are having overnight so that they can celebrate their 6th wedding anniversary.

Sending love and hugs from both of us Linda my dear friend.

I'm sorry to read of more sad news for your family plus a delay in your procedure. Sigh. Gentle hugs, Linda. Praying for pain free days ahead.

Popping in again...Hi!

Thank you everyone! The kindness of members in this group always astounds me.
Today is a beautiful fall day. My dog Lilly and I will take a walk.
I believe people harm only if you let them. The family will grieve, and celebrate in our own way.

Adding my condolences re Bill, Linda.

I hope your interim pain management is working for you.

>30 Caroline_McElwee: Thanks Caroline!

Unfortunately, part two of the pain management surgery, cannot occur until the insurance company authorizes it. The director of the center noted that he allows a two-week time frame. If he hasn't heard in that period, he will directly call my insurance to make sure his paperwork isn't sitting on a desk.

All these confusions..ugh.

BOOK 108

The Varieties of Scientific Experience by Carl Sagan

Incredible, insightful, mind expanding, and glad I read this one! There are so many thoughts that Sagan posits. Is there life on other planets? Is there a connection between a God/Being who made this universe? Are science and religion connected?

These are but a few of what I took away from reading this excellent book.

>33 Whisper1: Linda - so glad you found this one!

I just finished it and am going back to explore all the incredible photographs again.

Dratted insurance company!! Love and kisses!

Happy new thread, Linda. I'm sorry that you're still waiting on the insurance to approve the pain management, and hope it gets resolved quickly with a minimum of hassle.

>34 m.belljackson: Marianne, I found the Carl Sagan book on your thread. It is stellar! Thank you!

>35 ronincats: Hi Roni. Colder weather is approaching. It was more than chilly tonight when I took Lilly outside. I hope you continue to find things, and people to enjoy. You have been through so very much...so many changes in a short period of time. You are incredibly strong. I admire you!

>36 bell7: Hi Mary. I hope all is well with you. I may have misunderstood, though I am a good listener. I liked the director of the pain management center a lot. He took more than an hour to explain the procedure that he has in place to ensure that the right medications will go into the pump. He understood the depth of my pain, and said that the insurance company will certainly approve the procedure. After nine surgeries, they might be willing to ensure that there won't be any more after this one.

I hope you continue to enjoy your home.

Happy New Thread, Linda. My sympathy on Bill's passing, and the spiteful actions of his wife.

I'm also sorry to hear that phase 2 of your infusion pump surgery has been delayed for insurance company approval, but it's good to hear that approval is expected.We're all pulling for you to get some relief from that constant pain.

>29 Whisper1: "Like"

Hi Linda, and happy new thread!

>1 Whisper1: I love that thought.

>12 Whisper1: I’m sorry to hear about Bill’s sudden passing and the (now) widow’s nastiness and drama.

>28 Whisper1: I’m glad the family will grieve Bill and celebrate his life separate from the toxic wife.

>32 Whisper1: Insurance companies make me crazy. I’m sorry this hasn’t been fast-tracked for you and hope it comes through sooner than you’re expecting it to.

Sorry for the insurance delay, Linda.

Wow, there is so much going on for you right now, lovey. I remember you speaking fondly of Bill and I am so sorry for his passing and the mess that it has brought within the family. I hope the insurance company gets its act together soonest!

>33 Whisper1: Adding that one to the BlackHole.

>38 jnwelch: Joe, ever kind and sensitive. Thank you for your loving comments.

>39 karenmarie: Hi Karen! I received a call from the hospital pain management office. My insurance has approved the trial and surgery. The various pain medications are ordered for the trial. They should arrive mid week next week, or sooner.

As soon as they arrive, I will get a call from the office, to set up arrangements with the hospital for five days of one-two hours per day. As soon as the date is set, I begin cutting back current pain meds by 50%. Except, they want me to continue using the fentanyl patch.

They will begin the trial with morphine. I will need to let the doctor know I need strong headache medication for that one.

I am so ready!!!!

Thank you for your support, and kindness. I appreciate you!

>40 BLBera: Thanks Beth. Insurance approved. As noted in the previous message, by mid week next week, I should have the dates for the five day hour long testing of medications hopefully mid week next week.

>41 alcottacre: Stasia, with your appreciation of science and technical details, I really think you will enjoy this fascinating book. I admit, that at times he was a bit over my head, and I had to go back and re-read. The photos of stars are incredible!

It was wonderful to talk via phone a few nights ago! Felt like old times!!!!

((((((((HUGS)))))))) aplenty for you dear lady and in gentle consolation for all you have been trying to face down recently.

>42 Whisper1: Good to see that the insurance has given its approval and I pray this goes well for you.

Linda, I'm so happy that you have the insurance approval and can move ahead. I'm praying for very happy result. You have had a lot of turmoil in your life recently and deserve a turn around.

I am very happy to hear the good news, Linda!
All the best for the treatment.
Have a wonderful weekend!

You are in our thoughts and prayers dear Linda.

Goddess walk with you in this challenging time.

Linda - Great Good News At Last!

Smart of you to set up the Headache Medication in advance.

We'll soon get back to Carl Sagan - so far, my favorite photos are The Pleiades and the painting of the Oort Cloud.

Least favorites would qualify for Halloween creepy: the Figure 9 nebula and the Phobos moon of Mars.

Dear Linda, I am excited that everything is coming together and I'm praying for easy procedure and quick adjustment of the meds. I will be SO HAPPY to hear that this is working.

Thank you to all! I anxiously await the phone call from the pain management office telling me the medications have arrived. I have such hope that this will be the answer to the uncontrollable pain.

I deeply appreciate comments from each and every one of you! Words cannot express my appreciation!

BOOK 109



The Radium Girls: The Dark Story of America's Shining Women by Kate Moore

Life was good for the women who worked at the factory where their job was to paint the dials on watches used primarily in WWI so that the soldiers could see the dials light up.

Salaries were good for the women who worked with the chemical radium. There was a process. Dipping the brush into the radium compound and placing it in their mouths produced a faster way in which they could paint many, thus piece work compounded their take home pay.

Life and salaries were good, until one by one, teeth fell out, parts of their jaws were lose and then became unattached.
Other serious issues such as black spots, huge cancerous masses and tumors that made it impossible to walk, to work, to survive.

When the companies hiring the radium girls knew all along that radium was a radioactive compound which could and did produce high levels of cancer at various places in their bodies, they denied any knowledge of this.

Fighting all the law suits, they had the rich and intelligent lawyers to overcome the stories of the girls and what was happening to them.

While reading this story of the greed of capitalism at the cost of lives lost, I thought of the Sacklers of today who knew their miracle drug oxycontin was addictive, they pushed this drug to the harm of thousands upon thousands.

To this day, they fight law suites. Most recently, they won another case.

https://www.npr.org/2021/09/01/1031053251/sackler-family-immunity-purdue-pharma-...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radium_Girls

>50 Whisper1: I get to dodge that BB as I have already read it.

I hope all goes well with the new treatment, lovey!

Hi Linda!

Wonderful news about the insurance approving everything. I am so happy for you and hope the drugs arrive today, as it's now mid-week from last week. (you get the idea!)

>50 Whisper1: I've had Radium Girls on my shelves for 4 years and don't know why I haven't cracked it. I've tagged it '2021 read' but may not get to it this year. At the end of this year, I'll change all my books tagged '2021 read' to '2022 read'!

Just checking in here. Hope you have the meds!!

Good luck - I hope this works!

>51 alcottacre: Hi Stasia, Radium Girls was a book I should have read when I added it to the tbr pile when Mark recommended it.

>52 karenmarie: Karen, it really is a good book, sad, but very interesting. You might want to move it up on your pile. I'm glad I did. Thanks for your kind comments and good wishes. I haven't heard from the pain management office, but I will call tomorrow. Pain levels are increasing, and I am ready to go through with this surgery.

>53 Berly:, Kim, I haven't heard about the meds. I am anxious and will follow up on this tomorrow. I hope you are well.

>54 BLBera: Thanks Beth!!!

Glad to see if you are still able to post, Linda. I hope they get the appropriate meds to you soon!

Just checking in, Linda and keeping my fingers crossed that you will have the answers you want and need tomorrow.

BOOK # 110


Seeds of Freedom, The Peaceful Integration of Huntsville, Alabama written by Hester Bass Illustrations byE.B. Lewis

This is one of the best illustrated books I've read regarding the Civil Rights movement in the United States. The writing is lovely, with powerful phrases that are repeated for effect.

While Birmingham, Alabama was notorious as the most hatefilled stated, nicknamed "Bombingham, Alabama," Huntsville peacefully integrated their schools, and signs were taken down regarding "Whites Only."

After reading many books regarding the civil rights movement, I discovered something new. Black people were not allowed to try on shoes. They had to bring a paper cut out of their feet for the size of the shoe.

Huntsville, was home of the space program. Known as the "Space Center of the Universe," Rockets built to transport people to the moon, were built along side cotton fields.
There were tests of students sitting in seats at lunch counters, but unlike other cities, when arrests occurred, the signs of protest signs said "I ordered a Hamburger, The serve me a warrant!" Seeds of freedom were planted.

Martin Luther King spoke in Huntsville, but it was not reported in the newspapers. The seeds of freedom needed attention to grow.

Easter time was a booming sales time for stores. When non whites refused to buy their Easter finery at the stores, it was an incredible financial blow.

Instead of pretty dresses, and fine suits, the non white people decided to go to church in jeans. This was known as Blue Jean Sunday.

When the notorious hate filled governor George Wallace, mandated that whites and blacks be separated everywhere, the black members of Huntsville, decided to spend the day in the all white park. The children slid down the slides, and they rode on the Merry-Go Round!

The people had a different message than that of hate. Filling balloons as they rode in the front of the court house and released the balloons that carried a message inside. "Please support freedom in Huntsville!!!!"

Huntsville is a prosperous, proud and peaceful place Thus the mayor advocated for freedom and peace. President Kennedy visited Huntsville to advocate for freedom. Knowing that a great deal of money was at stake, he knew that if Huntsville was known as a hateful city, the government might not want to fund the space program.

Four black Huntsville families advocate for the right for their children to go to schools where white student attend. Four students went into the white school. As the hands reach the doors, they feel no movement of opening. The doors are locked.

Then, a miracle occurs, across town, a private religious school with all black students, welcome whites Twelve white students enter a door that is unlocked! This action became known as the
reverse integration in Huntsville schools.

I re read this book three times. The power of the writing and the events that occurred peacefully in Huntsville, seemed to sprout seeds of freedom.

There was no Bull Connor spewing hatefilled bigotry. There were no German Shepard dogs biting children who were plastered with hoses of water that splayed the children against the walls of buildings.

In Huntsville, seeds were planted, and they grew!

>58 Whisper1: Adding that one to the BlackHole! Thanks for the recommendation, lovey.

BOOK #111



Rocket Men: The Daring Odyssey of Apollo 8 and the Astronauts Who Made Man's First Journey to the Moon by Robert Kurson

One of the best books read thus far in 2021, this is the story of three very brave men who were chosen among NASA's elite. In December 1968 NASA astronauts Frank Borman, James Lovell, and William Anders were all exceedingly smart, very well competent, and each had a strong history of flight.

Traveling from earth in December of 1968 to the moon, making many successful spins around, and back again to earth, this remarkable journey was in fact a miracle of hope, and success. Some tests before the launching were fraught with errors. Tremendously well planned, the computer systems then were certainly nothing in comparison of today. Yet, they were successful.

History shows that the year of 1968 was one of sadness and chaos. Both Martin Luther King and Robert Kennedy were killed that year. The Democratic National convention hall was surrounded with protests, primarily regarding the horror of the Viet Nam war.
President Lyndon Johnson promised a fast conclusion to the war. As the body count grew, and the nightly news read numbers from a lottery choosing who would be the next to risk their lives in a country where many knew we did not belong, a country sick and tired of war held LBJ accountable for the disaster.

The nation needed something good to hold on to. Apollo 8 provided that!

A beautiful reading from the bible from Genesis on Christmas Eve brought tears not only to Americans listening, but to the scientists and all those who, despite all the odds, made this journey successful. With this mission, we beat the Russians to the moon, and, this successful mission brought images of the moon's craters highlighting where a mission of a next team could be successful in landing a man on the moon.

Reading this well into the evening, it is a wonderfully written, well researched book of early space exploration and the success of bringing hope to a weary United States.

Highly recommended.

BOOK #112


The Truth About Hillary by Edward Klein

Bland, gossipy, rambling without a solid place to land, I cannot recommend this book.

>60 Whisper1: What an excellent review, Linda.

I do hope that the meds are with you soon. xx

>62 PaulCranswick: Thanks Paul! I think you would like this book. I hope all is well with you. I know it is difficult year for you.

>63 Whisper1: As you know, Linda, I am a glass half full kinda guy so I can say The Only Way is Up!

Paul, Like you, I try not to get the adversities of life take me to a place I do not want to go. I don't care to be around negative people. I've tried to work through the grief of losing Will, as well as the uncontrollable pain nine surgeries brought.
All in all, life is good. And, I hold that premise close to my heart.

Here's to you looking up and finding the stars with your name on them.

BOOK #113


The Ones We Choose by Julie Clark

A fast read that focused on genetics and the mystery it holds. Paige has a child via a sperm donor. Her son Miles never fits in.
Not knowing who is "real" father is presents many psychological problems for Miles.

Touching upon the problems that may result from sperm donation, and the resulting unknown DNA problems that can result.

A quick, worthwhile read. The book held interest to me. I am the mother of a 39 year old child who who was adopted when she was two.

Five years ago, she developed thyroid cancer, and survived. I never knew that she carried such problematic feelings about her "real" mother. Her statement that she developed cancer because her mother didn't take care of her when she was a baby, and she was malnourished, led me to know that she harbors a lot of questions.

I offered to help her locate her biological mother, she refused. We were able to talk and sort through a lot of her feelings, including the fact that because she does not know her gene pool she will always blame "them" when she has serious health issues.

>65 Whisper1: Here's to you looking up and finding the stars with your name on them.

I love that, Linda, thank you xx

>67 PaulCranswick: Paul, I know there are a lot of stars that are not falling on you, simply shining brighter through adversity, positivity and lots of love.

>60 Whisper1: Adding that one to the BlackHole. Thanks for the review and recommendation, lovey.

>66 Whisper1: That one goes into the BlackHole too.

Hope you are doing better with the meds, lovey. Tried to call today - maybe later this week we can catch up?

BOOK 114


Wishful Drinking by Carrie Fisher

A child of two previous super stars, her mother was Debbie Reynolds, perhaps not known to people younger than me, and a father who was a cheater with a decent voice.

Her parents, particularly her mother, best know for the movie Singing in the Rain with Gene Kelley, her father not really a big star, most famous for cheating on Debbie Reynolds and marrying Elizabeth Taylor. That was a very short run of a marriage.

She loved her funny mother, it is clear that there are lots of hard, difficult feelings for a father who perhaps saw her and her brother once a year.

A self admitted drunk and drug addicted person, the book is filled with funny versions of hard falls which she puts a silly spin on them.

She draws a diagram of the marriages, the divorces, who married and divorced whom, and all in all it is sad, though she tries to make a joke of it all.

I found it sad story told by someone who tried to rise above, yet never did, even though she is most known for her role in the well known Star Wars movie.

Linda - speaking of cheating men, the link for the online Dance class my daughter is teaching
had a youtube reference to Dezi Arnaz and how he started the Conga Craze - what a wild treat!
(Search: Dezi Arnaz Conga)

>71 m.belljackson: Thanks Marianne. I will check this. I hope all is well with you. Fall frost has arrived. It is beyond chilly. I left the house once this week with my grand daughter to get new blankets.
It is nice to be inside where it is warm, cupt of tea and a good book.

Glad you're warm and warmed with book and tea, Linda. Like the rest of the group, I'm eager for you to have your surgery and start enjoying less pain. Your life is full when you hurt. A Linda freer of pain is going to be a Force of Nature!!!!!

>70 Whisper1: Carrie Fisher was a brave strong funny woman and a terrific writer. We saw her do a Broadway show based mostly on Wishful Drinking But you laugh and then go out of the theatre sad.

Understanding how the game is played in Hollywood is not the same thing as winning the game. Sometimes alas self knowledge isn't enough.

Her book Postcards from the Edge also has the mix of funny and sad about her early life as "Hollywood Royalty".

>73 LizzieD: Hi Peggy. Thanks as always, for your kind words.

>74 magicians_nephew: Hi Jim As I read the book, I wondered what seeing her on stage would be like. Thanks for the image. I agree, she is a creative writer. Her life was so sad. I heard her on NPR a week before she died. I was amazed at how witty, and intelligent she was.

Hmmm. I just reread what I wrote you earlier:Your life is full when you hurt. I didn't mean so full of pain that you couldn't think of anything else. I meant that you live fully anyway in spite of what would cripple most of us. I hope that's clearer. Meanwhile, we're all helping you wait. Hope you feel the support!

Stopping by to see how things are going. I too, enjoyed Radium Girls. It really makes you think.

>76 LizzieD: Hi Friend. I knew exactly what you meant. You are an incredible person!

>77 Carmenere: Thanks so much for stopping by. While reading it, I could not help but draw the similarities between the company that denied harm to so many young women who died tragically as a result of their reckless continuation while knowing that the radium was causing harm, to the current situation with the Sacklers who pushed oxycodin knowing that it was highly addictive. Most recently, a law suit was lost by those who were impacted by the addiction caused by this aberrant company.

I Hope you are well.

>78 Whisper1: I hope you are doing better, Linda. Is the new regime working yet?

BOOK #115


Ninety-Nine Glimpses of Princess Margaret by Craig Brown

If you ever slowed your car on a major highway to see the accident that caused the delay, then you will know what it is like reading this incredibly boring, bitchy book!

After watching the portrayal of Princes Margaret on the well-known series The Crown, this book caught my eye on a sale table. The author depicts an in-depth portrayal of a tragic life of a sad, perhaps mentally ill second best princess. Missing the inheritance of becoming the queen of England by a few short years, she watched jealously as her sister held the coveted position.

This framed the rest of her entire life Self absorbed, nasty to the point of severe rudeness, she spent her life demanding attention. A rude guest of those who made the mistake of accommodating her in their homes, all too soon, people grew to despise her nastiness, her curtness, and her demand for attention.

Rude to the point where people felt like slapping her, she lived off the poor people of England who could barely put food on their tables. She was a good case for why it is time to dismantle the way too old system of bowing down to those who least deserve to draw the blood off others.

Not worth reading! I cannot recommend it. As I read it, I thought I really should have put it down!

It's easy to bitch slap Princess Margaret - but I don't think that's the whole story.

We haven't looked at much of "The Crown" perhaps we should give it a try.

Perhaps someone else will come along to tell her tale with more sympathy.

>80 Whisper1: Prince Harry very much reminds me of Princess Margaret - the spare as they call them. Never really knew what to do with herself.

Both needed a good swift kick in the pants.

The NY Times has this article on best illustrated children's books of the year.

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/11/12/books/review/best-illustrated-childrens-books...

If you can't access it, let me know and I'll copy down the titles and authors.

>81 magicians_nephew: Hi Jim. I am looking for a book that will provide a different portrait of Margaret. The author seemed as though he had a vendetta. You and Judy may like The Crown series. Some is embellished, but the good thing about novelized books or movies is that they pull us into the story and want us to learn more.
>81 magicians_nephew: Hi Chelli! I like your comment that Margaret really didn't know what to do with herself. Perhaps instead of closets of Dior dresses, she might have given to the poor.

>82 cyderry: Hi Roni. Thanks. I got it. I appreciate your thinking of me!

I hope to hear from the hospital pain management office tomorrow. I heard that instead of medication that they needed, it was a tiny plastic piece of tubing, which when the nurse was putting all things together for the phase two stage wherein I receive a spinal tap allowing the incision to be inserted into the spine. I will have a pump, but it won't be outside, for the trial it is tapped to my back. Each day I return to see how I am doing and if the medications need adjusting. I go back to the hospital for five days when they monitor how much medication that was used, and if I need more, or different medication other than morphine.

The nurse who called me was very much a patient advocate. They had the tubing, but it was expired. The hospital looked at their supply to discover all departments had expired tubing. The manufacturer went out of business. She found a new manufacturer and believes it should arrive tomorrow, November. If so, I start the process on Tuesday.

This is like a soap opera story. As my pain increases, I truly am running out of patience. When the process starts, I will take 1/2 of the current medication so there is not an overdose.

I am ready to get this going!

>85 Whisper1: It does sound like a snarl of errors. I hope for your sake it all goes well on Tuesday.

All the best for you, Linda!

>80 Whisper1: Sounds like I can safely skip that one!

>85 Whisper1: I hope they finally get this squared away once and for all. This is getting to the ridiculous point. Wishing nothing but the best for you this week!

Crossing my fingers for you -- come on Tuesday!!

>85 Whisper1: good nurse.

Hoping the rest of the process runs smoothly for you.

Good luck, Linda. Long overdue already and I hope there are no more delays! Fingers and toes crossed!

>85 Whisper1: Sorry the wait is extended, Linda. I keep fingers and toes crossed for Tuesday!

Thinking of you dear one.

Linda - Sending HOPE that the Fates and Gods have aligned to bring a Good News Resolution for this Day!

Crossing everything for a good outcome Linda.

Thanks to all for your support. Alas, the tubing is not received as yet. I am frustrated beyond words. I deeply appreciate your support on this very frustrating journey.

So near, yet so far!

>96 Whisper1: How distressing. I wish you something to celebrate soon!

>96 Whisper1: All I can do is echo what Susan says! You need something good!

>96 Whisper1: So disheartening. It will be resolved soon Linda. Hang in there.

Oh, Linda. I'd say, go kick a pile of leaves, to let off the frustration but that might not be such a good idea.... hang in there, my friend. Soon, soon.

And if they don't get that tubing pronto, tell us where they are and we'll send out a posse....!

>97 quondame: Thanks so much Susan!
>98 alcottacre: HI Stasia, thank you for your friendship and kindness
>99 Caroline_McElwee: Hi Caroline...Many thanks for your messages that cheer me
>100 jessibud2: Hi Shelley, Thank you for posting a message that made me laugh right out loud.

No need to kick a pile of leaves, but if you want to send a posse, you can all come to my house and I'll provide lots of wine!

I received an early morning call from the nurse in charge of coordinating the details of the procedure. the hospital system notes that as of today, the tubing is in the warehouse. Now, it simply needs to get to the Hospital. The nurse, Kathy, said she will not be able to dial my number fast enough when they actually have the tubing in their hands.
Thanksgiving will hold up the procedure should they receive the tubing this week, or next. But, let's hope that the week after Thanksgiving will be the time to go through the trial. Bring on the morphine!!!!!

BOOK #116



Katherine of Aragon the True Queen by Alison Weir

Katherine did not bring a male heir to Henry, four babies were born, and shortly after breathing, they died. Of those babies, three were teeny males.

When a child was born and survived, and thrived, her name was Mary. Henry VIII celebrated this life because Katherine was still relatively young, and Henry believed a male baby was soon to follow.

Alas, that never happened. Despite Henry's frequent visits to Katherine's bed, she never became pregnant again. At 39, she entered menopause and the hopes were forever dashed.

This tragedy lead to the end of hope, and the eventually death of Katherine. A sassy young women by the name of Anne Boleyn, who was a lady in Katherine's retinue, caught the eye of Henry. His obsession with obtaining a male heir, lead to the change of the Catholic reign in England, tearing the country apart with the teachings of Martin Luther and the embracement of protestant teachings. A long battle ensued as Henry declared himself the supreme head of religion in England., tearing the country apart with the aim of marrying Anne.

Katherine came to England to be wedded to Henry's brother Arthur. Sickly, scrawny, and hacking to an end of death, Henry VII denied Katherine's ability to go back to Spain. He placed her in a cold castle with little company, the inability to pay for her staff, and measly cold plates of a few pieces of fruit and left over broth. Demanding the second portion of her dowry, Henry was brutal as Katherine's father in Spain refused to hand over another large portion of money.

When Henry VII died, when old enough, his son Henry VIII claimed Katherine as his prize. They spent years in a very solid marriage consisting of two like minded intellectuals bound together in love. Then, so very sadly, it ended as Henry grew more and more dissatisfied. He produced a male child with a woman at court, and Bessie Blout was married off to another, supported by Henry, who could not make the baby his heir, but he could tout that he was able to produce a son.

As Anne Boleyn, young and comely, promised what Katherine could not deliver -- a male heir. Off to a bitter cold castle for Katherine where she died broken hearted. Her punishment was that she never again saw her beloved Mary. She died from what historians now believe as cancer. A heart wrenching letter to Henry was delivered wherein she wrote she would always love Henry, and would pray for his sins.

Alison Weir wrote an excellent telling of court intrigue, a wonderful Catholic woman who was devoted to Henry, after the tempest tossed hell of waiting for years for a solution to severe mistreatment, and her demise because of something she could not control.

When Henry VII died, his son Henry VIII claimed Katherine as his prize. They spent years in a very solid marriage consisting of two like minded intellectuals bound together in love. Then, so very sadly, it ended as Henry grew more and more dissatisfied. He produced a male child with a woman at court, and Bessie Blout was married off to another, supported by Henry, who could not make the baby his heir, but he could tout that he was able to produce a son.

The story of Katherine is sad and tragic.

I've read many books about Henry and all his six wives. Katherine is the one who haunts me.

In slowly sorting through piles and piles of books, I discovered that I have enough books about Henry and his wives to fill an entire book case.

>101 Whisper1: Here's hoping that the week after Thanksgiving is finally the time. Coincidence that it pairs up with the Joplin meet up? Maybe we will bring you luck :)

>102 Whisper1: In slowly sorting through piles and piles of books, I discovered that I have enough books about Henry and his wives to fill an entire book case.

For me, it is books about books. I had no idea I had so many!

>102 Whisper1: I read this book on Katherine of Aragon, thought it was a bit too repetitive in her complaints about Henry VII and Henry VIII.
I also felt it was too long and could have used some more editing. IMO the Anne Boleyn book was much better.

>101 Whisper1: - Where is that warehouse??! I would think that, at the very least, the doctor should go pick it up himself, given how long you have been waiting!! Seriously! Sheesh!

Good luck, Linda. I hope this works.

>102 Whisper1: I found it interesting that some modern scholarship has reviewed the accounts and budget of Katherine of Aragon's final years and come to the conclusion that Henry VIII supplied quite enough in funds, but that the people around her siphoned too much of it into their own pockets. In his later years he might have shorted her, but that aspect of her troubles was due more to lax oversight than malice. Which is equally evil really, because she was his responsibility.

So sorry to hear about the continued delays in the tubing getting to you, Linda. Hoping it comes fast and that you're able to get some relief soon.

Linda, my fingers are crossed that the tubing will be delivered to your hospital and the procedure can go as planned. You are a picture of patience, my friend.

>102 Whisper1: I need to get around to reading a few of Weir's books on my TBR list. I plan to read at least one next year.

>103 alcottacre: Hi Stasia. I really have an addiction to books. I am slowly going through the upstairs book cases. Carefully making piles of books by alphabetically order. I have too many books. I will not live long enough to read them. I have some serious decisions to make.

>104 cyderry: Hi Cheli. I don't have the Alison Weir book regarding Anne Boleyn, but hope the library has this one. Happy Thanksgiving!

>105 jessibud2: Hi Shelley. Good news. I heard from the nurse who oversees the infusion pump surgeries. The tubing was received today. She called me immediately and set aside the date of November 29th. She will call again tomorrow to let me know which surgeon, and what time the trail will occur. Amen!!!!

>106 BLBera: Thanks Beth. I am so happy that I received the green light today. As my above message to Shelley notes, the date will be November 29th! Amen.

>107 quondame: That is fascinating information Susan! How very sad!

>108 bell7: Hi Mary. Thanks for your kind message. The trial surgery will happen November 29th. The process is that I will go back to the hospital each day for the entire week as they determine which pain medication, and the dosage that will go into the permanent infusion pump!

>109 Carmenere: Hi Lynda! Good News, as mentioned above. I think of you and hope the holidays are not too difficult. Much Love!

>110 thornton37814: Hi Lori. Alison Weir is one of my favorite authors of this time period.

GREAT NEWS

The infusion tubing arrived today. The nurse called right away. The date for the first day of the trial will occur November 29th.
Every day for that week, I will go back to the hospital when various dosages and types of pain medications will be placed in a temporary infusion pump. At the end of the week, we should have a definite telling of which medication and the dosage will be determined to be used in the permanent infusion pump.

A small incision will open the lower part of my spine where the tubing will be placed which will deliver medications from the temporary pump. I'll need transportation for each of the five days that I need to return to the hospital. At the end of the week, we will know when the surgery will occur for the permanent infusion pump.

I am almost afraid to believe that finally after such a long wait, this will actually occur.

Thank you to all who have supported me throughout this long process.

November 29TH!! Hooray!!

That good news about the tubing. Now at leas you'll know how to plan until then and won't have to hover waiting for news.

YAY for the good news!
Have a wonderful weekend, Linda.

Wonderful news, Linda. Will your granddaughter be able to take you for each of those 5 days?

That is wonderful news, Linda!

Great news, Linda. Good luck. Fingers and toes crossed.

Hi Linda!

>112 Whisper1: Great news indeed, so glad that this is finally starting.

So glad to hear the date is set, Linda, and fingers crossed everything goes smoothly!

Hi Linda my dear, big congratulations for the 29th now that the tubing has arrived, what a wonderful nurse Kathy is from the sounds of it. I hope that everything goes well that week and that the future is good for you, i can well understand your impatience for things to get going.

Apart from this i hope that life is treating you well and it looks like your reading is good, sending, love and hugs from both of us dear friend.

>112 Whisper1: Now that is cause for Thanksgiving!

Clapping.

Glad to hear that you have a date set! Hope all is well!

>112 Whisper1: Woot! I am so happy for you!!

Awesome news, Linda! Relief is on the horizon!

>112 Whisper1: Excellent news!

Have a fantastic Sunday!

Happy Sunday, Linda. Great news on the infusion pump. Hope has finally arrived. How are those books treating you?

Thanks to all! I deeply appreciate the comments of affirmation. My grand daughter will take me for the first day, and then, others including her, will help the remaining days of the week.

I have such high hopes that this will work, and I can finally get back to posting more often on threads and keeping in touch with all of you.

Mark, reading is what sustains me.

I am so glad that Kayla and your friends will be able to help you out! Wish I could be there to help too.

Prayers going up that this new treatment works for you, lovey!

Hi, Linda. Great to hear that all systems are go for 11/29. I’m sure you’re looking forward to it.

Excellent review of Seeds of Freedom. I’ll look for it.

I hope you have a relaxing and happy Thanksgiving.

Counting the days until November 29th.

There are some good books about Henry VII Henry VIII's father. The new dynasty was not that secure on the throne so having a male heir and continuity was desperately important to avoid ANOTHER round of civil war.

I've read about Katherine's finances and who did what to whom. Agree that it was up to Henry and his men to sort this out - but they didn't.

A Thanksgiving to Friends (Lighting the Way)

In difficult times
a friend is there to light the way
to lighten the load,
to show the path,
to smooth the road

At the darkest hour
a friend, with a word of truth
points to light
and the encroaching dawn
is in the plainest sight.

Linda, to a friend in books and more this Thanksgiving

Linda, I am so very grateful for you, my wonderful friend here on LT. Your optimistic take on life, your enthusiasm for books, and your amazing love, all of it lights up my life.

I wish you and yours (and all your little friends) happiness and HEALTH on this day of Thanksgiving. And cookies. : )

Hi Linda my dear, wishing you a very Happy Thanksgiving Day from both of us dear friend.

Happy Thanksgiving, Linda. Only good things going forward

Happy Thanksgiving!

May all the friends and gratitude ease your way through the weekend.

To All:

Thank you to all for posting. Please forgive my inability to send personal messages at this time. As the pain increases, I simply cannot wait until Monday.
I deeply appreciate all the outreach. And, Paul, that poem is incredible!

Who would have thought that a co worker in the Journalism Department at Lehigh University would direct me to Library Thing. She used is as a way to catalog her books. I joined the 75 challenge, never knowing it would bring such tremendous friends, who since 2008 would sustain me through surgeries, Will's passing, the loss of a beloved pet, and now my tenth procedure/surgery to test the infusion pump and the drugs placed therein, and the permanent surgery to place an infusion pump in my abdomen with tubing into my spine.

Thank you is not enough to express all we have been through together, supporting each other along the way, with events such as, HEALTH ISSUES, LOSSES OF PETS, PASSSING OF BELOVED FRIENDS AND FAMILY, BIRTH OF CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDEN, PERIODIC FRUSTRATIONS, AND THEN, OF COURSE THE SHARING OF BOOKS WE READ.

There were tremendous joys we shared as well as sorrows. I am so very blessed.

It is difficult to count the thousands of books read and shared since the inception of this wonderful group. But, I am mighty glad for it all.

Much love and joy to all.

Linda

BOOK #117


What Really Happened John Edwards, Our Daughter, and Me by Rielle Hunter

This was not worth the time spent reading, and not worth a review. Suffice it to say the .35 cents I paid for the book at a library sale table, was too much.

Her writing was terrible, and self absorbed. Really, who cares what she ate where? Selfish, defensive and totally out of touch with how she with a selfish politician did was amazingly ugly!

BOOK # 118


Hitler's Last Days by Bill O'Reilly

As mentioned previously, I do not care for Bill O'Reilly and his bombastic personality, but I do like some of his books, and this is one of them.

While my partner Will had two Uncles who face terrible travesties during WWII, I did not understand the geography of Europe and the sheer horror of the battles he instigated.

This is an accounting of his various missions, and the fighting of countries who tried desperately to stop him. As I listened to Will's Uncles, I always had the through that while this incredible demon killed so very many, not only Jews, but any group he deemed unworthy, in the end he was a coward who could not face what he did, and killed himself.

This is a chronicle of some of the missions throughout Europe that the US military succeeded in stopping him, and also those that sadly, were not successful.

Primarily, it focused on Hitler, those who surrounded him, and the terror together these retched people provoked.

I did not know that even as the Russians were approaching his bunker, he still believed he could win. Not surprised, but incredibly saddened, to the end, there were some who ran the concentration camp who fled, and others who killed all the remaining in the camp.

>141 Whisper1: Yikes! I don't think that would have tempted me in the first place, but I'll be sure to steer clear of it.

>142 Whisper1: I've been surprised at how well I like some of O'Reilly's books also.

I hope you get relief Monday and that you can withstand the pain until then.

>141 Whisper1: Yikes!!!! We always thought that John Edwards was a light-weight. Then we found out what he really was. Seems as though RH deserved him. I pity the child.

You, I support 100%+. I can't wait for you to get some relief after your long, long battle!

Love to you, dear Linda!

>142 Whisper1: Adding that one to the BlackHole. Thanks for the review and recommendation, Linda.

Hang in there until Monday! I know you can do it and I know this procedure is going to work out for you!!

Will be thinking of you this coming week, Linda, and praying that you finally get the comfort and relief you deserve.

Still have yet to look at any of the Bill O'Reilly history volumes though i have been told the one on Lincoln and the one on JFK is readable.

I contributed money to John Edwards' campaign. I wish i could get a refund. Not even 35 cents worth of interested in the musings of his ex-mistress

Can feel sorry for the child of course to have such ninnies as parents

We all are holding you up to the light, Linda. May the good goddess walk with you in this time of trial.

Hi Linda! So glad that it’s almost time for you to get started on this new pain management process. I’m keeping my fingers crossed and sending prayers and good wishes.

>142 Whisper1: I do not care for Bill O’Reilly either, but have read two that he has co-authored with Martin Duggard, and thought they were both excellent.

>147 magicians_nephew: Those are the two I’ve read, Jim, and found both readable and excellent.

Hi Linda my dear, thinking of you for tomorrow and the rest of the week dear friend.

Adding my best wishes for tomorrow, Linda. You will be in my thoughts!

>129 Whisper1: I can hear the excitement and hopefulness in your post, Linda. I'm thinking positive thoughts and praying really really hard for great results!

Praying for you tomorrow, lovey. Text me, if you can. I will be in Joplin tomorrow and Tuesday, Longview for the rest of the week.

Dear Linda, me too!!!!! I do so look forward to hearing that everything has gone well and that you're getting immediate good results.

All the best for today and the next time, Linda.
Thinking of you!

Hope and more Prayers coming to you today, Linda.

Keeping fingers crossed all goes well today Linda.

Me too, Linda, again!

Hope everything went well today!

Just checking in...hope today was a success!

Thinking of you today Linda

And back again. I'll be glad to know that you're home!

Just checking in and hoping everything went well yesterday, Linda.

>162 bell7: Ditto

>163 Carmenere: And me.

Thinking about you, Linda, and hoping things went well.

Me too. Me too!

Sending support and prayers.

Thanks to all. It's been a long week.

They surgery surgery to implant a temporary pump with a lead directly from my spine was painful, AND productive. I was wide awake for the procedure. Yikes, it hurt like what I would image a hive of bee stings. I asked the nurses if people pass out, and they laughed and said usually the big guys with many tattoos.

They set the dose of medication into the pump, and showed my granddaughter what to look if by chance it stopped. Fortunately, the green light on the device that was fed from my spine round to my side where the pump was placed in a pouch, worked as it should. It did not beep at all.

The rest of the week, grand daughter Kayla took me to the hospital each day for a few hours when they checked the pump, the amount of medication I used, and then doubled the dosage.

The day after the surgery, I noticed a lessening of pain. By today, when they removed the pump, I only had a small amount of pain! It felt like a miracle to go from level nine pain down to level one.

The only side effect was itching an a rash on my arms and legs, but it was tolerable. Mid week, Kayla changed the bandages and all was fine.

I am happy to say I am a candidate for the permanent infusion pump. Before I left the hospital, the surgeon entered all data into the computer, and sent a message to the neurosurgeon who will perform the surgery (under sedation.) I'll be in the hospital overnight and can go home the next day. The neurosurgeon's office called, and by the time I got home they submitted everything to my insurance and told me their experience shows that since I had such positive results, the insurance will cover the surgery.

They will call Monday believing they will hear from the insurance, and depending upon the surgeon's calendar, I may have the surgery a few days after Christmas!

Until the surgery, I will go back to the oral medication. I will experience the wicked pain again until the surgery. But, I am ok with that knowing that the direction is forward. The pump actually contains a mini computer that reads the amount of medication used, and can show the time of day when my body calls for increased dosage. It will indicate when it is time to be refilled. The refill most likely will be needed every two months, and will be done via a needle into my abdomen that will carry the medication directly into the pump.

I'm tired, emotionally and physically drained. God Bless Kayla, she took the job seriously and now she too is worn out.

The results were better than the surgeon and nurses thought they would be, and were amazed that after the first day, and every succeeding day, my body worked with the pump, and reacted right away to provide pain relief.

Again, thank all for walking this journey with me

Shetland Sheep dog Lilly is nine years old. I never tripped over her, until the day after the surgery

She's been agitated knowing something is different. I did not know Lilly was plastered right behind me. I turned, tripped and did a face plant.

No harm was done to the pump, I have bruising, but it could have been a lot worse

I feel like a little ole lady tripping over her dog! But, I am so excited about the certifiable easement of pain, that if I could, I would dance!

>168 Whisper1: So happy for you it worked, Linda!
I hope the placement of the permanent pump will be soon and go smoothly.

>169 Whisper1: Gentle hugs to you and Lilly.

We all dance with you, Linda!

Linda, this is such good news (except for the trip!) *Right after Christmas* is not that far off so keep that focus and know that you will enter 2022 almost a new person!

I hope your bruising goes away quickly, too. And know that Lilly just wants to be sure she can see you and be at your side.

xoxo

>168 Whisper1: That is the best news ever Linda. What an amazing New Year almost pain free ahead. Certainly something to celebrate. And hugs for wonderful Kayla's support too.

Yay! I'm happy dancing too! How wonderful to be surrounded with Kayla and Lilly! They are the best medicine.
Now, go and enjoy the holiday fun! But be careful and NO tripping!

Hi Linda!

>168 Whisper1: Such good news! I’m happy for you.

It's good to hear from you with such positive news, Linda. Sorry you and Lilly had a collision, but that could have been a lot worse.

Dear Linda - At Last the Great Good News we've all be waiting for !!!

Maybe Lilly is just figuring how she can help out when Kayla needs a rest.

Oh Linda, my dear - SUCH WONDERFULNEWS!!!!! I'm shouting for joy! I do so look forward to your future life not ruled by pain.
Sorry about your run-over Lilly. You've been conscientious for it not to have happened before. Our pets like to be close, and we're not equipped to avoid them when we're tired or hurting except by being careful.
You rest. Kayla rest. Lilly rest.

That's such great news, Linda! So glad you will soon be able to get some permanent relief.

Great news about the pump, Linda! What a great Christmas gift.

Hi Linda my dear, such wonderful news about the pump and that your future is not going to be ruled by pain. It sounds like Kayla has been an absolute star during the week and like you she needs to rest.
Sorry about you falling over Lilly, she was obviously concerned for you but just got on the wrong side of you, i hope that you are both fine.

Sending special Yorkshire love and hugs to you and Kayla and hugs to Lilly from both of us my dear friend.

>168 Whisper1: It is great that you have relief in sight! I know it will be a long few weeks for you, but at least you'll soon have a countdown to work on.

>169 Whisper1: Life these days with Nutmeg and Gizmo is one of constant awareness to avoid tripping over one or the other. Especially on the stairs.

>168 Whisper1: Oh, my god!! I am so glad the test went so well and that there is an end in sight. I hope you can hold these few days of relief in mind until you can get the procedure done. You have a wonderful 2022 ahead!! Much love, Berly.

>168 Whisper1: Pleased and much relieved by your update, Linda.

All my best wishes, always. x

>168 Whisper1: catching up on threads, SO glad to hear the temporary pump was a success!

My friend, I am so relieved to know that the end of your vicious pain is in sight!! I understand the dread of having it return after the test but knowing that a permanent solution is within weeks of happening, my heart sings for you! Think of all the wonderful activities you will be able to undertake in 2022!

If only you could have had this solution years earlier. I will thank God for finding this procedure and moving you forward to a pain-free existence.

Yeah to the doctors!!!

HUGE sigh of relief.

Didn't realize how much i had been holding my breath hoping this would work out.

Linda the Cybernetic Wonder!!!!

Thank you to all, and I appreciate your understanding that I am recovering, and not able to respond individually. Know I love all and am so very grateful for your support!

So glad to hear the good news from your surgery. I hope everything goes smoothly with putting in a permanent pump.