Katy Upperman

The Impossibility of Us was a beautiful story about acceptance and following your heart even when the world is against you. Elise stood up to her family and sacrificed those relationships when it became clear they wouldn't let go of their prejudices. It's easier to deal with hate and ignorance when it's not directed at you and your choices.

Janie was my favorite character! She's Elise's three-year-old niece and always made me smile. Her wishes, love of cookies, and adoration for a father she'll never know... it was so sweet and heartbreaking. She also doesn't understand racism or hatred, or even know how to form those feelings, so she easily accepts Mati and his relationship with Elise. He was incredibly kind to her and told her stories that were relevant to his culture.

I enjoyed all of the information Katy Upperman included about Mati and his beliefs. I also liked that Elise researched things on her own. She wanted to understand and be knowledgeable. She made an effort to learn some of his language and customs, and he did the same.

At first some of the language felt weird, but I quickly learned it was just how Elise thought and spoke. She had a different way of perceiving the world, and it showed through her speech. When the wording felt awkward, I realized it was because Elise felt awkward herself. Her thoughts and feelings were represented in what she said.

An observation that bugged me... At the beginning Mati claimed to only have a prepaid phone that they kept for emergencies, but later he's carrying it around and using it like a normal cellphone. He texts and calls Elise with little abandon, and a few messages and calls to Ryan. I wish the author would have mentioned the phone again and whether or not it was an issue for him to use it that way. Did he have to keep putting more money into it? If so, where did that money come from since they were in the states for his father's treatments? No one was working (that I know of), so I'm not sure how they rented their cottage, paid bills, or bought groceries.

I really liked Ryan and his friendship with Elise, but I felt like they were instant friends that rarely saw each other. When they hung out it felt a little forced, so I wish more time had been spent on developing that relationship. He was so sincere and I wanted him to be a more prominent part of the story.

It would be lovely if the author's story had been completely fictional, but the hatred and prejudice are real. People always have their reasons, and they feel like they're able to justify them, but it's never okay to despise one person for the actions of others. Would you want the world to judge American citizens for the actions of its president? I have no control over what he does or says, just like Mati has no control over what some Muslim/Afghans choose to do.

Overall, The Impossibility of Us was a truly remarkable story that had me turning the pages through the wee hours of the morning (already on my second cup of coffee as I write this), and I cannot wait to read more from this author.

Originally posted at Do You Dog-ear? on July 30, 2018.… (mere)

Prepare the tissue box because this is a read to tear at the heart with a few chills along the way.

Callie's life has fallen apart ever since the death of her sister. She's on a road to self-destruction until her father steps in and offers her two choices: a camp in Montana or her aunt in Oregon. Although the second touches close on memories of her sister, Callie heads off to Oregon to help her aunt refurbish a house. But when Callie gets there, strange moments happen, which leave her with chills down her spine, and even an unexpected local boy might not be able to help the dark shadows heading her way.

This book was so much more than I expected it to be. While there's the wondrous moments of sweet romance, which make the heart melt, there's a chilling pain and darkness to grab and keep those pages turning. The first chapter sets the tone with a situation which demands attention. Callie is in pain, and although I wanted to dislike her for her obviously horrible way of handling things during those first pages, she's hard not to feel for. Her pain comes across real and convincing. She's easy to connect to and impossible not to root for.

Every moment and character comes to life, making this a tale to sink into. It plays at the emotions, allowing fear, sorrow, love and pain to hit with full force and drag in. This is one fans of romance with chills and ghosts won't want to miss.

I received a complimentary copy through Netgalley and enjoyed reading this one so much that I'm leaving my honest thoughts.… (mere)

I LOVED this book! It was the kind of read where I wanted to stay up all night to finish and couldn't get enough. I smiled and cried and felt so much while I read. I loved Elise and Mati together, they were just opposite enough but still had similarities, like their creativity and all they've been through. Elise lost her brother in Afghanistan and her mother has been distant since. Elise climbed into herself and doesn't have many connections to others. Mati has come from Afghanistan to America for his father's cancer treatment and is isolated here because of his ethnicity and religion. They both came together so wonderfully and helped each other branch out and be happier. I felt so bad when Elise's mom and sister in law were rude and racist toward Mati, but it was a great example of the prejudices people have.
This was sweet and sad and amazing! I definitely recommend!!… (mere)

Elise’s life changes when her mom decides to move right before her senior year. She hasn’t had a lot of friends since her brother’s death in Afghanistan. Her sister-in-law is struggling and they move to help her with her daughter.

Within a few days of moving to her new town, Elise meets Mati. When she learns he is from Afghanistan, she knows it will be a problem. Her mom and her sister-in-law have extreme prejudices against Muslims. Elise’s parents lived in NYC during September 11th and her brother was in the army and killed in Afghanistan.

So when she starts falling for Mati she tries to keep it secret, he’s also only going to be in town for a couple months. So their situation seems doomed from the beginning.

Interesting story. Sweet romance. Sometimes Elise’s family irritated me. I guess that’s unavoidable though, given how they treated Elise and Mati.… (mere)