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Laurie Helgoe, PhD, is a clinical psychologist, educator, and author with a special interest in the relationship between personality and culture. Dr. Helgoe is an Associate Professor of Behavioral Sciences at the Ross University School of Medicine. She is the author of six books, including the vis mere critically acclaimed Introvert Power: Why Your Inner Life is Your Hidden Strength. vis mindre

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Helgoe, Laurie Anne
Fødselsdato
1960-12-10
Køn
female
Nationalitet
USA
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Charleston, West Virginia, USA
Uddannelse
Gustavus Adolphus College
Erhverv
psychologist
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Jacky Sach (BookEnds Literary Agency)
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Dr. Laurie Helgoe is an author and clinical psychologist specializing in personality and the psychology of desire. As owner of Book It! Literary Consulting, she enjoys helping writers prepare their books for publication and works with agencies such as TSG Consulting in preparing written materials and media campaigns. Her media experience ranges from book publicity to commercial modeling and acting. Helgoe is a Clinical Assistant Professor at the West Virginia University School of Medicine, Charleston Division, in the Department of Behavioral Medicine and Psychiatry.

Helgoe authored the cover story, “Revenge of the Introverts" for the September- October 2010 issue of Psychology Today. She has been profiled or quoted in more than 40 publications including: The Wall Street Journal, Real Simple Family, Body+Soul Magazine, The Arizona Republic, Esquire.com, Washingtonpost.com, Psychology Today, The Charleston Gazette, Dallas Morning News, San Jose Mercury News, The Columbus Dispatch, and The Memphis Business Journal. She has been featured in more than 100 blogs. Helgoe has served as a columnist for Advising Boomers and Wealth Manager Magazine and expert consultant forSeventeen.

Helgoe appeared on Whatever with Alexis and Jennifer on the Hallmark Channel October 25, 2010. Other television experience includes: her own news segment, Time for You, on WCHS-TV, Charleston, WV (ABC affiliate), and guest appearances on: The Noon Show on WCMH (NBC affiliate) in Columbus, OH, The Afternoon Show on WKYT (CBS affiliate) in Lexington, KY; The Morning Show and Channel 13 News on WOWK (CBS affiliate) in Huntington-Charleston, WV. She also appeared in five television commercials and numerous print ads.

She has given 30 radio interviews, including drive-time segments and featured discussions on programs such as The Lynne Russell Show, The Satellite Sisters, “Chat With Women,” Theresa Caldwell’s “Say It By Heart,” and The Joey Reynolds Show (in studio).

Helgoe has given more than 30 university lectures, most notably at the University of Charleston, the University of Nevada-Reno, and West Virginia University.

Helgoe’s books include: Introvert Power, recipient of a Publisher’s Weekly starred review; The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Raising Boys; The Anxiety Answer Book; The Boomer’s Guide to Dating (Again); and The Pocket Idiot’s Guide to Breaking Up. Her book contracts span five languages. She lives in Charleston, West Virginia, with her husband and two boys.

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Key takeaways from Introvert Power by Laurie A. Helgoe:

1) Accessible Introvert (pages 42-43): "Cause-oriented people who are well trained in negotiating the social area." Big picture thinkers, friendly to everyone, craving privacy, adopted extrovert culture and chide ourselves for it

2) My space in cyberspace (pages 60-61): "In cyberspace, the rules of engagement favor introverts. We can connect while remaining alone. We can read and write rather than talk. And we can more comfortably network with people who share our interests and ideas." Another perk: We can turn off cyberspace whenever we want. Introverts want "inner action" while extroverts want "interaction."

3) The rhythm of introversion (pages 118-119): Introverts experience higher level of mental arousal on an ongoing basis, which is why we seek reduced stimulation in our environments.

4) Extreme talkers (pages 158-159): An extreme talker are needy and exhausting for the introvert. They talk constantly. Introverts tend to attract them because we rarely interrupt. "For introverts, extreme talking in not cheap at all--it takes a huge toll on us."

5) Loss of community (pages 206-207): "We like communities that are easy, when people welcome us without binding us."
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mrstreme | 14 andre anmeldelser | Jul 15, 2023 |
This book is good for any introvert. Helgoe's approach is informative as well as written in a manner to encourage personal growth. The best thing about the book is that she encourages balance between extroverts and introverts.
 
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JRobinW | 14 andre anmeldelser | Jan 20, 2023 |
This book gives a very good description with life examples of what being an introvert is. Which was very fascinating because I am an introvert. In fact I have been an introvert all my life, but it was only the information that I learned in this book that I could put a name to what I was. It also showed me that just because I'm introvert doesn't mean that I'm broken or weird -- I'm just different. Plus by recognizing who I truly am I can accept what I am and how I work and discover how all that fits in with my life, my relationships, and my world.

THE BIG LIE -- The biggest lie is that introverts are in the minority but we are not. The stats have been skewed to say that but introverts are slightly more than half of the population at 57 percent. So this book would also be useful to all those extroverts because then they can appreciate us introverts for our uniqueness and strengths.

There is a tendency to categorize introvert behaviors as mental illness when actually they are a personality type. So when introverts are given what they need -- quiet, solitude, understanding, space, mutual respect -- we become the best introverts that we can be and actually complement extroverts to make everything better as a whole. -- ...as challenging as our extroverts may be, they provide a balance we crave. The introverts I polled described extroverts as "upbeat" and able to "keep things light" and "cheer you up."" (p186)

... His own world is a safe harbour, a carefully tended and walled-in garden, closed to the public and hidden from prying eyes. His own company is the best. He feels at home in his world, where the only changes are made by himself. His best work is done with his own resources, on his own initiative, and in his own way ... His retreat into himself is not a final renunciation of the world, but a search for quietude, where alone it is possible for him to make his contribution to the life of the community. (p14)

The section on SELF-REPROACH was also very helpful. -- "Introverts tend to internalize problems. In other words, we place the source of problems within and blame ourselves." (p174) A list of helps is provided to overcome this problems -- things like 1) notice how you talk to yourself, 2) practice being kind to yourself, 3) give others credit for their part in problems...

One of the best tips in the whole book -- when an introvert arrives home from being gone a long time -- give ten minutes of undivided attention to children/spouses right away. Once they are reassured of your presence they will bet bored and go back to their activities living you alone to relish some guilt-free solitude. (p186) It works. I used to come home drained thinking only of getting away by myself, but family kept intruding on my quiet which led to much stress. Now when I come home I give them my full attention and within 30 minutes they have left and I have peace and quiet to do what I want and relax and recharge.

The section APOLOGIES, EXPLANATIONS, and EXCUSES was also a big help -- it is OK to be an introvert and it is OK to not want to participate in an event and it is OK to say "no" and mean it. When we are hesitant to say "no" and instead automatically say "not this time" we leave the door open to being invited again instead of stopping the conversation with something else like -- "Wow, Yeah, it's just not what I want to do. Sounds like you'll have fun, though." (p195) -- I love the statement made on page 197 -- Americans are programmed to ignore the subtle. -- So now I'm very honest about how I feel and tactfully stand my ground. I'm much happier and have less stress.

Every introvert needs to read the section MEDITATING IN YOUR MOSH PIT (p236-237) which explains the awesome strengths and gifts that introverts have and the impact that it has on those around us.
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