Andrea Brandt
Forfatter af 8 Keys to Eliminating Passive-Aggressiveness (8 Keys to Mental Health)
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Andrea Brandt, PhD, MFT, is a renowned psychotherapist and pioneer in the field of anger management. The author of two books, Dr. Brandt's work has also been featured in the Los Angeles Times and Parenting Magazine.
Værker af Andrea Brandt
Mindful Aging: Embracing Your Life After 50 to Find Fulfillment, Purpose, and Joy (2017) 6 eksemplarer
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That being said, I think an important key to not being passive aggressive is to stop lying. Stop lying, stop saying Yes when you mean No, only to turn coat the moment that the other person turns their back. (This applies to all gender groups, not just women and children.) I don’t know. You need SOME boundaries, at least. I don’t really confront my parents about their B.S. because they don’t listen to me, but if one of them point blank asks me if I’m going to do something that I can’t or won’t do, I say No. (Like in a modern romance novel. I said No.) I am not a habitual liar anymore.
Additional disclaimer: My reviews basically never have exactly the same exact views as the author. In this case, Andrea is much more the middle liberal than me, not quixotic, you know.
…. That’s interesting; both of my parents are (subtly) aggressive communicators—100% about you receiving their care and expertise. No feedback required. But I can communicate healthily with my one friend…. (He was going to be my sponsor, but he’s more like the mad professor, so a much better friend than a sponsor.) We can both talk, mostly about books and ideas, also about symptoms, and I don’t feel like he has to be like me or vice versa. We are quite distinct, but I like that he’s an old man. I feel much more like someone who will be 55 & over in 22 years, than someone who was a teenager 14 years ago…. What a benevolent dictator I would be, if I could make the world see things my way. It’s be a Wagner/Marx Third Way dictatorship, and it would be beautiful.… (mere)